What women say and what they really mean

Women are hard to read, you men will probably say that you know a woman, but you don't. Us women are not simple and plain like men, when we say something we mean something else:

What women say            What they really mean

k...                                    I’m sad and angry and you have to figure out why

I have to go                       Don’t let me out of your site

I’m fine                             I'm not fine, I want to cry my eyes out

Oh..                                  I want to be alone

Go Away                          Stay with me and comfort me

                 

(With the last one, it can be said in many different ways but still has the same meaning)

When women say these terms (either texting or talking) then you men have to take the initiative to help them, women can look strong and tough on the outside, but on the inside, we are weak and frail. 

 Yes women lovwe to help people and friends, but where does that burden go? it lands on the women, it never really goes away and if men do not help lift that burden, then it piles up on women and pulls them down until they are nothing

Confliction

This is advise for anyone who is troubled:


You have two choices regarding anything thing, you can choose to follow your heart, or your mind. 


The heart, the organ that keeps you alive, that shows your true emotions, that gives you emotions, your heart keeps you alive mentally and psychically. It is the truth among lies. Choosing your heart can lead to freedom from suffering and pain.


Which your mind gives. the mind is the process that is bound by law to make you suffer. It knows nothing else because the mind always fights the heart to win. 


We see these two, the heart and the mind, they are opposites, but they always work in harmony, giving you and you alone the choice of which path to take. The mind will do anything to make you follow it. But the heart will always try to turn you away and make you see the light and feel the warmth.


If ever you are caught between these two opposing sides, close your eyes and take a moment to listen to both of them, and create that mental image of the paths and see which one leads you to the light.


But know this, only you can make the choice because you see the truth in both the heart and mind. because you know them best

Why women shouldn't trust guys

Guys can be the biggest idiots when it comes to love.

I am in love with someone, and I have turned down other guys, because I am. but he loves someone else who not only broke his heart but also stepped on it. but he is still in love with her, after all she's done how can he do that?!

He doesn't understand that once someone betrays you, they will always betray you.

He also feels like a shadow in her presence, but right now, I feel like the true shadow. I set my feelings for him aside to help him find the truth in how she feels about him, but if they do end up together, I'll end up permanently being that shadow, just barely a conscience, that will always be happy to help, never asking for anything in return or imposing my feelings, because I'm "too nice".

I always put my thoughts aside, because I always put other people first. and that is the mistake that every guy makes, they all assume I'm so nice and always happy so they all betray me, thinking I won't have any second thoughts or feeling of any other kind than happy.

That's what hurts me the most... It's because I always take care of other people before I take care of myself and the guys that I had any sort of relationship, all of them took advantage of me then betrayed and abandoned me, having no regard that I may be hurting or crying so much that I would want nothing else than pain and suffering.

He admitted that he falls so easily for cute girls, I may not be cute, I may not be pretty but I am a girl, a successful, smart girl that is trying to do something with my life, not just rot away in a fantasy world. But in society today, the other girls that are like me, not all but most, they are living without a man, because they are also successful and don't need men to run her life.

Headaches

Okay to start of I am sorry I haven't been on lately. too much work. but I have gotten further in my story.... and  my characters will not leave me alone.... -_- Suu... this may sound super crazy but it's creepily true. My characters I create are based off my emotions. And they have actually created form in my head so when I am feeling that emotion I am practically speaking in said character.

what's funny is that I drew a picture of each of them and the looks that I had in my head matched the drawings. I also have half a book done with my characters and myself just talking. (I use different colored pens to indicate who is who) and we all just talk, but everything is in their own view. as if I am just me and all the others are them. Also they all play different parts in my millions of writings that I've done. their names may change but the faces are the same.

People see and hear me talking to myself a lot and I know it's weird but I talk to my emotions and they talk back. Because I believe in them so much they have actually created minds of their own. I have to say, not hanging out with friends as often you really get to feel alone, because it is really hard to talk to parents and not having any sisters doesn't really help. then Poof you have your own imagination to talk to...

Which sometimes kills because with them having a mind of their own, they get in fights (verbal AND psychical) and it takes an affect on me by giving me a massive headache.... like now...

but I have to admit when you really feel alone at times, your imagination is always there to help you escape reality...